PAIN OF THE BLINDSPOT 

2 Hr & 40 minute Online Class

with John Luckovich & Alexandra Arroyo-Acevedo

 

 

 

 

 

 
 

 

 

Icon of an eye crossed out, indicating a blind spot

Integrate Your Instinctual Blindspot

In this class, John & Alexandra expand on their 2024 IEA conference talk, which was so well received that they were asked to return to give the Endnote address.  

Overview

John & Alexandra outline the role of instinct in personality, emphasizing how our Instinctual Stacking causes lopsided development. They answer the question, "What does it mean to be 'blind' in each instinct, and what doesn't get developed with each Blindspot?" This is an important topic for sincere seekers who want to avoid spiritual bypass. 

This Seminar Will Help You To...

  • Understand Your Instinctual Fears: Each instinct is driven by an unconscious fear, one of which scares us more than the others, resulting in our dominant instinct.
  • See How Your Blindspot Stays Blind: We unconsciously believe that attending to our blindspot  instinct will threaten our  ability to meet the needs of our dominant instinct. This distinction is often the biggest "aha" for students.
  • Learn how to Integrate Your Blindspot: Develop a balanced relationship with all 3 instincts.
  • Stop Confusing Instinctual Satisfaction with Essence: This is the basic unconscious mistake that keeps the personality in motion. Becoming awake to it is a critical fulcrum for inner work.
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What They Cover

John & Alexandra join Josh to talk about what they cover.
(This was our promo video before the live class.)

 

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Teachers

John Luckovich [SX/SP 4w5] is Co-Founder of The Enneagram School, author of The Instinctual Drives and the Enneagram, and co-host on the Big Hormone Enneagram podcast. He also does private coaching, facilitates breathwork, and guides pilgrimages to Egypt exploring the roots of inner work.

Alexandra Arroyo-Acevedo [SO/SP 9w1] is a co-host on the Big Hormone Enneagram Podcast. She also does personal Astrology readings and Enneagram-based commentary on reality TV shows like the Bachelorette. 

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Praise for John

Stephanie Foster

John Luckovich understands the breadth of the Enneagram and is one of the most knowledgeable and eloquent teachers I have had. He is versed both in the practicalities and the mysteries and knows how to bridge them for lasting shifts. It’s a journey well worth taking, and a teacher well worth following.

Sarah Gettys

In the past few years, I have taken several enneagram classes with John (live and pre-recorded), and received one-on-one enneagram coaching. He is incredibly knowledgeable and is effective at communicating the basic concepts of the enneagram with accuracy and subtlety. His coaching is direct and compassionate, and he creates space for an embodied, experiential understanding of the enneagram.

More specifically, I choose to study with John because  he has a very down-to-earth approach that centers integrating the enneagram into daily life. He teaches about acceptance of the personality in a way that allows me to connect with my spirituality and my humanity. I also appreciate what he has done to challenge stereotypes regarding gender and sexuality that have showed up in enneagram work, and I think that his perspectives are more accurate and create more possibility for self-awareness and freedom for women and queer folks.

Thomas G

Through regular Enneagram sessions, John has helped me to see the thought and behavior patterns that have been operating for decades, and start to discover what's underneath them. As a Nine, accepting that I have needs and desires (let alone expressing them!!) is a daily struggle, and the reflections from John, along with meditation showed me how my Superego was/is hijacking my attention for much of the day, and has given me concrete tools to gently find my way back to what's actually happening around me.

As a type nine who spends much of time in mental loops, he's helping me to get back in touch with my Heart and my Gut, and to include my experience in the present moment.

Even over video calls, he's attention to my energy is impeccable. As a withdrawn type I can go FAAAAAR AWAY if I want; John patiently but directly invites me back. (no sugary BS, to which I have a strong aversion - a gut reaction!) He sees me when I don't feel worthy of being seen.

I don't know how else to say it, but John helped to find, in my own meandering way and words, a place in myself where I know, simply, that my existence matters.

Karyn Prybock

My sessions with John, which included enneagram coaching and breathwork, were filled with insight, compassion, and a rare presence that made true contact, even via Zoom. Not only did I learn a lot about myself through his knowledge of the enneagram, but I also learned ways to stand up against a part of myself that was keeping me from thriving. John's deep understanding of the human condition and his passion for sharing that truth has helped me discover myself in ways I didn't even know were possible.

Praise for Alexandra

Kristen Oberly

Alexandra is able to pull together the most incredible insights of psychology, intuition, and self-development. Her enthusiasm for wisdom and growth is infectious, and I’m always discovering new things about myself and the world with her. I feel like Alexandra is incredibly attentive to my process and gently pointing towards my blind spots, which always feels relieving to become aware of when working with her.

Kalla Mort

Alexandra has such an impactful presence as a leader and facilitator. During my time in the attachment support group I appreciated the way that her presence invited vulnerability into the space, even over zoom! She’s incredibly knowledgeable and I felt at ease as she led us through the subject matter in a skilled and grounded way.

Josh Lavine

Alexandra is one of the most brilliant people I've ever met. She is driven by real curiosity and inspiration, and her insights come from thorough excavation of her own psyche. Do not be fooled by her sweet 9 exterior -- her eye for the inner world is incisive, penetrating, and hard hitting. She is both intuitive and rigorous, and her teaching style is imagistic and metaphorical, yet always grounded in precise distinctions relevant to you. She has blown me away often with her insights. I consider myself lucky to learn from her.

Alice Nuccio

Alexandra is an eternally kind and insightful woman who pays deep attention to those she leads in learning or just anyone around her. She offers her insights thoughtfully and with a great deal of intelligence, and always treats others as a co-learner, even as a teacher. Her style of relating and facilitating is always very comfortable and equal, and she is always interested in growing her own understanding as she helps others grow theirs.  

 
image of cerberus, the 3 headed dog, representing the 3 instincts

What You Get

2 hour & 40 minute recorded seminar with lecture, visuals, & practice. 

Fee

We offer this pre-recorded online class on a sliding scale from $50-75.


Featured Art:
Cerberus, 1824-7, William Blake
Sadak in Search of the Waters of Oblivion, 1812, John Martin
Morning After the Deluge, 1843, J.M.W. Turner

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Pain of the Blindspot Class

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