Browse Our Enneagram Interviews
 On our Podcast and YouTube show What It's Like To Be You, we interview accurately typed guests about their inner experience and inner work practitioners about their modality. Click below to browse our interviews by category.
Interviews by Enneagram Type
Understand the types' inner experience with these in depth interviews.
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Type Nine
The Harmony Seeker
9w8
- Kaisa (SX/SO 9w8 935): "I'm Either Hooked or Catatonic," Erotic Releases of Anger, and Seeking Essential Harmony through the SX Instinct — [Video | Podcast]
- Charles (SO/SP 9w8 963): Resensitizing After 20 Numb Years, the Goldilocks Zone, and Being “Cool” Not Meticulous — [Video | Podcast]
9w1
- David (SP/SX 9w1 974): Gathering Himself, Online Combativeness, and the Diffusion of Identity — [Video | Podcast]
-  Jamie (SP/SO 9w1 963): Being a Comforting Presence, Making Space For Yourself in Conversations, and Rebelling Against Pressure — [Video | Podcast]
- Czan (SO/SP 9w1 953): Twice an Immigrant, Toggling "Existing" On/Off, & Owl Medicine — [Video | Podcast]
- Sarah (SO/SP 9w1 937): Positive Outlook Spin, Blurring Fantasy & Reality (and Gaslighting), and Finding Your "No" — [Video | Podcast]
- Sarah (SO/SP 9w1 937) Round 2 MetaConvo: Attachment Games, Rupture & Repair Cycles, and Realtime Conversation Dynamics — [Video | Podcast]
- Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963): Dreamwork, Depersonalization, and Coming Back to Life via the Unconscious — [Video | Podcast]
- Alexandra (SO/SP 9w1 963): Triple-Attachment Life, Choosing What's "Mine," & Discovering Friendship Intimacy — [Video | Podcast]
- Nicholas (SP/SO 9w1 936): Inner Envelope Functions, Dispersing Attention, & Learning to Focus — [Video | Podcast]
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Type Three
The Value Seeker
3w2
- Kelsey (SP/SO 3w2 378): Chasing "The Dream" vs "My Dream," Authenticity at Work, and Learning How to Rest — [Video | Podcast]
- Kier (SO/SP 3w2 358): Hiddenness and Secrecy, Avoiding Introspection Through Constant Activity, and Not Giving Up on the Heart — [Video | Podcast]
3w4
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Type Five
The Insight Seeker
5w4
- Yamira (SO/SX 5w4 531) High Stakes Art, Grief & Creativity, & Crossing the Bridge to an "Other" — [Video | Podcast]
5w6
- Jess (SO/SP 5w6 538): Risking Exposure, the Symbolic Objects I Put Between Us, and the Terror of Mindless, Soul-Dead Zombie-People — [Video | Podcast]
- Kelly (SO/SX 5w6 512) Unnecessary Emotions, Rejection-Attachment Relationship Dynamics, Doing My Own Thing — [Video | Podcast]
- Russ (SO/SX 5w6) Isolation, Hyperfocus, & Escaping to Emptiness — [Video | Podcast]
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Type Six
The Truth Seeker
6w5
- Courtney (SO/SP 6w5 631) Outsourcing Agency, the Call to Self-Responsibility, Playfulness — [Video | Podcast]
- Courtney (SO/SP 6w5 631) Round 2: Engagement in the Mental Center, Finding Truth in the Body, & Cultivating Inner Authority — [No Video Available | Podcast]
6w7
- Mary (SP/SO 6w7 692): Core Sense of Responsibility, the Practice of Making Deliberate Mistakes, and How to Know When to Stop Brushing the Dog — [Video | Podcast]
- Emma (SO/SP 6w7 612): "Resentful Accommodation," Making Things a Bigger Problem Than They Need To Be, and Getting Present in the Mental Center — [Video | Podcast]
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Type Seven
The Freedom Seeker
7w6
- Ikram (SO/SX 7w6 793): Procrastinating Darkness, Frustration with Negativity AS Negativity, and Giving an "Honest Try" at Positivity — [Video | Podcast]
- Sam (SP/SO 7w6 712): The (Avoidant) "Fun" of Talk Therapy; Vulnerability as an Attraction Strategy; and Going Back to Feelings School — [Video | Podcast]
- Chanti (SX/SP 7w6 794): Magically Enhancing My Environment, Having Fun, and Getting (Away With) What I Want — [Video | Podcast]
- Kim (SP/SO 7w6 712) Surviving Trauma, EMDR Therapy, Avoiding Entrapment, and Settling the Mental Froth — [Video | Podcast]
7w8
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Interviews by Instinctual Stacking
Below are the same interviews as above grouped by Instinctual Stacking, so you can see the role it plays in type.Â
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Self-Preservation / Social
-  Jamie (SP/SO 9w1 963): Being a Comforting Presence, Making Space For Yourself in Conversations, and Rebelling Against Pressure — [Video | Podcast]
- Kelsey (SP/SO 3w2 378): Chasing "The Dream" vs "My Dream," Authenticity at Work, and Learning How to Rest — [Video | Podcast]
- Nancy (SP/SO 3w4 369): Being Good at Things, Identity Experiments, and Choosing to Live — [Video | Podcast]
- Mary (SP/SO 6w7 692): Core Sense of Responsibility, the Practice of Making Deliberate Mistakes, and How to Know When to Stop Brushing the Dog — [Video | Podcast]
- Sam (SP/SO 7w6 712): The (Avoidant) "Fun" of Talk Therapy; Vulnerability as an Attraction Strategy; and Going Back to Feelings School — [Video | Podcast]
- Kim (SP/SO 7w6 712) Surviving Trauma, EMDR Therapy, Avoiding Entrapment, and Settling the Mental Froth — [Video | Podcast]
- Nicholas (SP/SO 9w1 936): Inner Envelope Functions, Dispersing Attention, & Learning to Focus — [Video | Podcast]Â
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[SO/SP]
Social / Self-Preservation
- Emily (SO/SP 8w9 836): Social Power Dynamics, Untouchable Independence, & Sensitivity — [Video | Podcast]
- Charles (SO/SP 9w8 963): Resensitizing After 20 Numb Years, the Goldilocks Zone, and Being “Cool” Not Meticulous — [Video | Podcast]
- Czan (SO/SP 9w1 953): Twice an Immigrant, Toggling "Existing" On/Off, & Owl Medicine — [Video | Podcast]
- Sarah (SO/SP 9w1 937): Positive Outlook Spin, Blurring Fantasy & Reality (and Gaslighting), and Finding Your "No" — [Video | Podcast]
- Sarah (SO/SP 9w1 937) Round 2 MetaConvo: Attachment Games, Rupture & Repair Cycles, and Realtime Conversation Dynamics — [Video | Podcast]
- Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963): Dreamwork, Depersonalization, and Coming Back to Life via the Unconscious — [Video | Podcast]
- Alexandra (SO/SP 9w1 963): Triple-Attachment Life, Choosing What's "Mine," & Discovering Friendship Intimacy — [Video | Podcast]
- Bob (SO/SP 2w1 279): Personal Touch, Saintly Inspiration, & Having a Special Place in Others' Life — [Video | Podcast]
- Niklas (SO/SP 2w3 269) The Inner Hope Machine, Power Tripping as "Super Jesus," and Seeing Through Ego Pride — [Video | Podcast]
- Kier (SO/SP 3w2 358): Hiddenness and Secrecy, Avoiding Introspection Through Constant Activity, and Not Giving Up on the Heart — [Video | Podcast]
- Gray (SO/SP 3w4 368): Socially Tracking Others, Truly "Seeing" Others, and the Heart's Silent Communication Underneath Words — [Video | Podcast]
- Jess (SO/SP 5w6 538): Risking Exposure, the Symbolic Objects I Put Between Us, and the Terror of Mindless, Soul-Dead Zombie-People — [Video | Podcast]
- Courtney (SO/SP 6w5 631): Outsourcing Agency, the Call to Self-Responsibility, Playfulness — [Video | Podcast]
- Courtney (SO/SP 6w5 631) Round 2: Engagement in the Mental Center, Finding Truth in the Body, & Cultivating Inner Authority — [No Video Available | Podcast]
- Emma (SO/SP 6w7 612): "Resentful Accommodation," Making Things a Bigger Problem Than They Need To Be, and Getting Present in the Mental Center  — [Video | Podcast]
- Sam (SP/SO 7w6 712): The (Avoidant) "Fun" of Talk Therapy; Vulnerability as an Attraction Strategy; and Going Back to Feelings School — [Video | Podcast]
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[SX/SP]
Sexual / Self-Preservation
- Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854): On Typing Others, Not Knowing I'm Being Provocative, Advice for Relationships with 8s — [Video | Podcast]
- John (SX/SP 4w5): The Inner Middle Finger, the Crushing Gloss of Artifice, and the Sourcing of Identity in Depth Itself — [Video | Podcast]
- Chanti (SX/SP 7w6 794): Magically Enhancing My Environment, Having Fun, and Getting (Away With) What I Want — [Video | Podcast]
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- Joseph (SO/SX 4w3 461) Frustration in the Heart Center, the Resting Attitude of Disdain, and Seeking Refined Social Intimacy — [Video | Podcast]
- Yamira (SO/SX 5w4 531) High Stakes Art, Grief & Creativity, & Crossing the Bridge to an "Other" — [Video | Podcast]
- Kelly (SO/SX 5w6 512) Unnecessary Emotions, Rejection-Attachment Relationship Dynamics, Doing My Own Thing — [Video | Podcast]
- Russ (SO/SX 5w6) Isolation, Hyperfocus, & Escaping to Emptiness — [Video | Podcast]
- Ikram (SO/SX 7w6 793): Procrastinating Darkness, Frustration with Negativity AS Negativity, and Giving an "Honest Try" at Positivity — [Video | Podcast]
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Sexual / Social
Interviews with Practitioners
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- How to Open the Brain-Body Superhighway using Somatic Experiencing® & Alexander Technique — with Tracy Einstein
- How to Analyze Your Dreams using the Enneagram — with Kristen Oberly & Kaisa Jauhiainen
- How to Activate Your Sexual Instinct — with John Luckovich & Alexandra Arroyo-Acevedo
- How to Question Stressful Thoughts using The Work of Byron Katie — with Todd SmithÂ
- How to Listen to Your Body's "Felt Sense" using Gendlin's Focusing — with Sandy Jahmi Burg